If you've been searching for a way to create more effective communication with people...

Your search is over.

Here’s How to Turn Arguments into Agreements,
Manage Verbal Attacks with Ease and
Figure out What the Other Person REALLY wants

I’ll show you step-by-step how to apply the Four Secrets of Communication Success to recover from (or even prevent) angry exchanges, confrontational conversations, and downright nasty verbal attacks.

 

Wouldn’t it be great to know how to...

...really "win-win" an argument, so nobody has to feel like a big loser the next day?

...handle tough conversations before they blow up and turn into confrontations?

...never feel like wishing you could take back what you said?


You'll be able to walk away from every potential verbal conflict knowing that you were the champion that redirected the confrontation back to a conversation.

I'm going to teach you how to do this Right Now, for FREE!

 

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Irvine, CA
February 18, 2008
From the Desk of:
Jon Forrest

 Dear Friend,
My name is Jon Forrest and I am a Communication Success Coach. I have spent the past 30+ years of my life learning, practicing, applying and teaching the Four Secrets of Communication Success that I'm going to share with you.

There are a lot of people out there talking about talking. Most of the big motivational speakers talk about how important communication is for our health and fulfillment in our personal lives, and individuals in high-profile leadership roles all speak about how important good communication is to create effective, successful businesses. One of the biggest authors of our day, Stephen Covey, says it is critical to “seek first to understand, then be understood.” Even the book that was allegedly reprinted more times than any other book besides the bible – How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie - invites you to “Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view." But…

None of them talk about the “communication deal-killer”:
How do you stay calm when someone throws a verbal hand grenade at you? When somebody loses their cool and launches a verbal attack, or starts a major argument with you, then how do you see things from their point of view?

Let's uncover the answers to these questions by getting into the hidden secrets of communication success.

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Here is Secret Number One

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Secret #1.

Principles are NOT Universal

Principles cause a problem called "Righteousness." This is the essence of conflict.

We all have principles which are simply our belief systems for our own conduct. It's how we believe we should manage ourselves in society. When someone says something to us that goes against our principles, we experience "Righteous Indignation."

We take offense, we feel insulted and say things like:

"That person has no right to speak to me that way."

or

"How dare they judge me."

and

"I'm not going to respond to that just based on principle."

There are also a number of words that people, who don't know about or understand the problem of Principles use. Like:

Manipulate

Intimidate

Retaliate

Withhold

Justify

Control

Conspire

Predjudice

If you find yourself having an emotional reaction to any of these words, they probably relate to negative or upsetting interpersonal experiences you've had in the past with someone who "went against your principles."

The challenge is principles are personal and are based on our beliefs.

We think they are universal, but they aren't. The principles we have are there because our parents and the other adults in our childhood put them there. They are part of what is called our implicit memory which means we don't have the ability to describe them like the explicit memory we have of a trip to Disneyland.

The rollercoaster of emotional experiences we felt with our young brain and the adult body language we saw with our young eyes loaded us up with a set of beliefs that operate in our subconscious, just beyond the reach of our conscious minds.

But...

When someone says something that 'goes against our principles', we respond to them as if they should know better, as if our beliefs are (or should be) the same as theirs. They aren't. Make the effort to let go of the assumption that principles are automatically shared.  Instead, ask someone who seems to have different principles than yours, to see if that is true and if so, why.

That is the how to apply the Secret of Principles.

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If you’re like me, you’ve noticed that all of the information out there about relationships and conflict resolution and managing difficult conversations all have one thing in common: They sound great when you hear them or read them, but when the proverbial crap hits those spinning blades, everything stinks!

Those authors and leaders and motivational speakers do a wonderful job of providing an intellectual understanding, which is a good starting point, essential even. But that information is in your head, and when conversation turns to confrontation, the issue becomes emotional.

It’s instantly all about your heart, not your head.

 

The REAL problem, that nobody else is talking about, is how to apply all that academic fluff when you’re suddenly under attack.

 

When your kid shouts, “You don’t really love me!”

 

When your significant other screams, "You Never think of MY feeings!" because you accidentally pushed some hidden “hot button.”

 

When your co-worker says, "Don't blame me, that's not MY job!"

 

When your boss says sarcastically, "I can't believe you thought this report was good enough to turn in."

 

When your in-law says, "How dare you talk to my daughter that way!?"


What is it that really makes the difference in getting what you want out of life? It is your ability to interact and communicate effectively with the people in your daily life. With your spouse, your kids, your boss, your co-worker, your parents and siblings, your in-laws (!), your friends... The list goes on and on.

Unfortunately there is no class given anywhere that teaches you the art and the science of effective communication. Yet it is the skill we use the most and the one that, if not developed, can get us into the most trouble. Think about some of your biggest regrets in life. Isn’t the root cause of those sad events usually ineffective communication, arguments, shouting matches, confrontation and conflict?

To help you start the process of learning these mission-critical skills, I'm going to teach you the Four Secrets of Communication Success that they forgot to teach you in school.

But first...

Here's a brief history so you'll know
why I'm doing this

My name is Jon Forrest and I am the author of the book Stay CALM which includes a foreword written by Dr. Joe Vitale. I am also a professional speaker, trainer, business consultant and an executive coach.


I was raised by very understanding parents with great parenting skills. Home was a peaceful and healthy place to be a kid and life was good...

...until I started school.


I was unprepared for the bullying and verbal abuse that I got when I was in grade school. I didn’t have the experience for dealing with that with my family members, it hit me hard and lowered my self-esteem. I became isolated and very sarcastic by the time I got into high school.  The pressure of all the abuse started me on my quest for understanding why people behave the way they do, and what to do about it.

I made the decision as a young man to learn everything I could to help other people who were getting bullied or finding themselves in confrontations or dealing with verbal attacks find a way to stay calm and resolve the situation.  I want to share my discoveries with you now so you can teach it to your friends and your kids and help them to avoid the fights and arguments and pain of broken relationships.

I realized that this is my mission

When I help people feel better about themselves they like themselves better, and as a result, they tend to be more tolerant and accepting of others.   This is how I can see to make the world a better place:  Peace and harmony, one conversation at a time.

To fulfill on my mission I...

  • Started studying a gentle, non-combative martial art called Aikido
  • Participated in personal development and leadership training
  • Spent years and years studying human behavior
  • Studied emotional intelligence and the way our brains work
  • Became a trainer with a world famous training firm
  • Started specializing in communication skills for business people
  • Developed and now deliver my program to companies around the world

 

And here's what I know is true:

You must communicate effectively to be successful in your career, and in your life!

People who have developed the ability to communicate effectively, especially under stress or in conflict:

  • get promoted faster
  • keep marriages intact
  • have more friends
  • enjoy better health

 

Whether it’s your boss, your coworker, your spouse, a family member or a friend, people in our lives sometimes come at us with words that cause us to feel hurt or abused or defensive. Let’s face it, we all have made the same mistake in our lives, losing our cool and ‘dumping’ all over someone we actually care about a great deal.

And that’s just for starters. When someone loses their cool with you and gets angry or upset, don’t you tend to be wary of that person from then on? You never know when they might blow their stack again, and now you’re walking on eggshells. Worse, if you responded by getting angry and upset back at them, now you are making them walk on eggshells and now nobody can communicate effectively and things just get worse from there.

Next thing you know, you’re walking out (or getting fired) from your job, going through the unbelievable anguish of breaking up or divorce, ending friendships that meant a great deal to you, and disowning family members making holidays and family events horribly awkward for everyone.

 

The Four Secrets of Communication Success teaches you the art of influence and the science of the brain so you can avoid all that and instead deal with confrontation, arguments, conflict and verbal abuse in a way that helps you retain your dignity and self respect while guiding the other person to a mutually agreeable resolution.

 

Here is Secret Number Two...

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Secret #2.

Projection is YOUR Issue

When someone does something that makes you angry, it’s because you would hate yourself if you ever did that thing. That’s called projection. And we all do it. A lot.

The story is about Carl, a production specialist in a manufacturing firm has a boss that regularly blames Carl for not getting his reports turned in on time and correctly.  The accusations drive him crazy.

"If you really cared about this department you'd never even think of turning in a report that looks like this!" His boss says with a major dose of attitude "And on top of that, it's a day late!"

"I'd never talk to one of my people that way"  Carl thinks to himself after his boss storms off.  "I wonder why he hates me so much?"

What's really going on here?

Carl is a soft spoken man who dislikes conflict and tries hard to avoid confrontation. When he hears his boss making accusations and blaming him, Carl instinctively projects his own ideas about what his boss must think about him. 

He thinks to himself, "If I said something like that, it would be because I thought that the other person was lazy and worthless.  I guess my boss thinks I'm lazy and worthless." Carl bases his assumption on what he woud be thinking of someone if he were to speak that way to them.

The reason projection is your issue is because you never really know what someone else is thinking of you.  You only know what you would be thinking of someone if you spoke to them in that tone, with that expresssion and that body language.

Often projection happens in our sub-conscious mind and we don't really notice the process of projection, but we sure do notice the frustration and humiliation that result from thinking we know what other people are thinking about us.


How do you manage your own Projection?

 

You can master the Secret of Projection in TWO STEPS.


Step one is simply becoming aware of how often you assume you know what someone is thinking based on their expression, body language and tone of voice. You might be able to get fairly close at guessing what they are feeling… but their actual internal dialogue? You’d be more likely to win the lottery.

Step two is unusual but very powerful. You actually ask the person if what you think they are feeling is accurate and if what you think they might be thinking is even close. When you do this with an honest curiosity and an open mind, you will be genuinely surprised at how smoothly the conversation will flow.

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What's in this for you?

It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or woman, young or old, rich or poor, single or married, or where you live. Once you understand the Four Secrets of Communication Success and understand exactly how to use them, you will be able to create rewarding relationships, manage confrontations and verbal abuse and ask for what you need to feel fulfilled in life.

You Will:

  • Remain calm in even the most stressful situations
  • 'Rewire your brain' for successful conflict resolution.
  • Experience a renewed sense of self confidence and courage.
  • Understand what causes relationship issues and what you can do to fix them.
  • Gain clarity on what you need to feel fulfilled in your relationship with others.
  • Learn the steps to anger management - yours or someone elses.
  • Discover why your imagination is the key to resolving any difficulty

 

With that said, let’s get to secret #3....

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Secret #3.

The Problem of Self-Deception

Most of us are all for making changes… in other people! We all believe we are usually right. Our brains are wired for righteousness at a very deep level

 

The problem of ‘thinking it’s not our problem’ is known as
The Problem of Self-Deception.

 

Self Deception is a topic that has been examined by scholars since the days of the Greek philosophers. In brief, self-deception is the following circumstance:

1) People often create their own problems.

2) When they are creating their own problems they typically can’t see that they are creating their own problems.

3) Although they apparently can’t see what they are doing to create their own problems (which seems to imply that they are somehow blind), they nevertheless can see well enough to resist ideas and suggestions that might help to solve those problems.


Sometimes we fall into the “blame mode” and start looking for ‘who is wrong’ instead of working together fo find out ‘what is right.’ When we are in Blame Mode we are often unable to recognize what it is about our own behaviors that are causing others to be resistant towards us and not trust us.


When people don’t trust us, it’s almost impossible to influence them to behave in more effective and productive ways.


Friend, I don’t know if this happened to you, but a lot of us are brought up in an environment where the people who love us and care about us the most, are also the people who create a lot of drama and anguish in our lives, intentionally or not. We grow up with our developing minds experiencing love as only being “real” if it’s accompanied by drama and anguish. Then we wonder as adults why we are always attracting drama and anguish in our relationships. We deceive ourselves into believing that the other people in our lives are bringing us drama and anguish. They are, sometimes. But mostly it is our own self-deception that has us convinced it’s being done “to us” instead of “with us” or even "by us."

When you are brought up this way, you end up with a deep sub-conscious need to feel right about always being “wronged.” All of this is based on your young, developing brain being “wired” to believe that love was only real if it came with big servings of blame and anguish.

Would you be willing to try and understand other people?

Take an honest look at all the people in your life who you blame for the condition of your life. Would those people be likely to put you on their list if they were reading this same letter?

If so, then those are people with whom you are experiencing Self-Deception.

Reach out in your mind’s eye and see what it is about them that you blame them for. Now look at yourself from their point of view and find what it is about you that they blame you for.

See if you can find a way to help them let go of their blame for you. Discover one thing that you could do for them that would show that you really do care about them (and then do it).

That is the starting point for applying the Secret of Self Deception.
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If you only read one secret...
This is the most important one!

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Secret #4.

The "Real" Source of Personal Power

The bottom line of this Secret (the most important of the four) is that we are all creative, powerful people, even when we think we aren’t!


I'll share my favorite quote from Albert Einstein. He said “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” This, coming from arguably one of the smartest, if not the smartest man ever to walk the planet.


Let’s look at some entries in the dictionary definition of imagination so that you can more fully understand this cryptic quote and the Source of Personal Power.

Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
im•ag•i•na•tion / i-maj-uh-ney-shuhn /
Noun

Entry #1) The faculty of imagining, or of forming mental images or concepts of what is not actually present to the senses.

Entry #2) The action or process of forming such images or concepts.

Entry #4) The product of imagining; a conception or mental creation, often a baseless or fanciful one.

Entry #5) Ability to face and resolve difficulties; resourcefulness: a job that requires imagination.

Entry #6) Psychology. The power of reproducing images stored in memory...


Many of us are raised to believe that imagination is mostly about Entry #4 – a baseless or fanciful mental flight that produces nothing of any real value. Many of us were raised by adults that scolded us for “making things up” or laughed at us when we pretended to be a movie star or an animal or a space alien. We were told that we won’t ever amount to anything if we daydream our lives away.

As children we heard over and over, either explicit or implicit messages that imagination is OK for little kids, but if we are to grow up to be responsible young adults we must give up our childish ways and “get real.”


Let’s take a quick look at the other selected entries and see what might have prompted Mr. Einstein to say that imagination is more important than knowledge. It sounds odd after spending our youth bombarded by the messages of “You need a good education or you’ll never amount to anything” and “Stop making things up, you’ve got to see things as they really are.”

Now I know you’re probably thinking “But you do need a good education, knowledge is important” and you are right. Your knowledge is your ticket into the playing field of life. I know Albert had a lot of knowledge, so he isn’t saying that it’s unimportant, it’s just that imagination is MORE important.

Let’s find out why.

 

Entry #1) The faculty of imagining, or of forming mental images or concepts of what is not actually present to the senses.

The most current brain research has shown that when you imagine a condition that is not actually present to your physical senses, you have brain activity in the exact same areas of the brain that would be activated if you were actually having that same experience in reality. Your brain is unable to tell the difference between an imagined experience and one that is “real.”

 

Entry #2) The action or process of forming such images or concepts.

If you believe (beliefs are imagined, not real) that you don’t have a very good imagination, it is that way because of how good your imagination works. You have imagined that you don’t have a very good imagination, and now your highly creative imagination is forming images and concepts that validate the concept that your imagination is not that creative.


HUH?!?


Yes, that’s right! You have made up that you aren’t good at making things up! But that’s only because you were raised to believe that you aren’t that good at making things up. So now, using the same power of imagination that someone who believes they have a great imagination, you have imagined that you don’t have a great imagination. It is the SAME EXACT IMAGINATION making these conceptual beliefs into reality for both people.

 

Entry #5) Ability to face and resolve difficulties; resourcefulness: a job that requires imagination

This is where the rubber meets the road. Facing and resolving difficulties requires imagination. All of life’s meaning happens in the context of relationships.

If you were raised in the wild by a pack of wolves, your life would have very little meaning, past that of pack life. Getting food and surviving the elements would be foremost in your mind, with little opportunity to make much meaning out of anything else.  If you were then suddenly discovered and brought into civilization, you would be forced to face and resolve many difficulties and your imagination would need to expand in order to connect with other humans.

Without the resourcefulness of a creative imagination it is extremely difficult to produce ideal creations, like friendships and shared meaning.

And now we are on to the major reason why I believe Albert Einstein made his proclamation. It is the imagination that is central to creating our experiences. Without it, no amount of knowledge will bring about the deep fulfillment that comes as a result of developing meaningful relationships with a wide array of different kinds of people.

 

Entry #6) Psychology. The power of reproducing images stored in memory...

Bottom Line? There are two kinds of creative modes:

1. Looking backwards at what has already happened in your life and creating more experiences like those you have already had (even if you say that isn’t what you want, you’ll still recreate them based on Entry #1).

2. Looking forward and purposefully creating, with your imagination, experiences that will enable you to achieve goals that you believe will bring fulfillment and meaning to your life.


As it turns out, based on the Dictionary.com definition, the power to create your reality is entirely yours. In fact, nobody can create your reality for you but YOU!

All of which means that you can reclaim your creative Personal Power and apply it to intentionally design the relationships you would really like to have, and set off towards achieving that goal.

 
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That, my friend, is how you apply the Four Secrets of Communication Success to create amazing, effective and fulfilling relationships.

And you can start right now.

Wow!

That's a lot to take in huh? Take a minute to bookmark this page so that you can come back and reference it.

I bet you're probably thinking, "I wish I’d learned about this years ago…" It isn’t important that you didn’t learn it years ago. What’s important is that you take action on what you just learned to make things better in your life.

Before Learning the Secrets of Communication Success I…

  • Used sarcasm and bragging to cover up my insecurities
  • Never felt accepted or understood by my peers
  • Felt like I had to pretend as if I was someone I wasn’t
  • Created meaningful relationships with only a very few people
  • Dealt with conflict by avoiding it
  • Argued a lot and got angry with people

I was in a place that I’m sure a lot of you can relate to in one way or another. I felt lonely and I became cold and distant, even towards the people I cared about the most.

It’s not like that anymore…my life has totally changed. I’m not sharing this to brag, but simply to show you that if I can do it, anyone can. No matter who you are or what your current situation may be.

To learn a new skill or "rewire your brain", you must immerse yourself in a new way of thinking for a period of time. Once you have made a continuous conscious effort to get your brain to respond to verbal conflict differently, you will always respond in that new way - for good.

 

Having Learned how to use the Secrets of Communication Success, I...

  • Enjoy meeting new people
  • Find that there is never any need to argue
  • Resolve conflict while it’s still a conversation
  • Find myself being asked to help other people – a lot
  • Have deep meaningful relationships with the people I love (Like with my wonderful wife of 17 years, who I adore)
  • Love (and like) a lot more people
  • Have friends all over the world from all walks of life
  • Have a lot of liberty in my life
  • Do now what I will be doing after I retire
  • Openly acknowledge my strengths as well as my weaknesses
  • Enjoy being my true and authentic “self”

What's next?

At this point you should have a good understanding of the Four Secrets of Communication Success. This is the starting point to effectively communicate and share meaningful experiences with other people.

Let’s talk about your next steps to begin this journey and ensure you create the meaningful relationships you know you deserve.

The next step is putting the Secrets of Communication Success to work.

You must have a system!

Without a system, you leave everything up to chance. You have to have specific actions and skill building exercises along with a plan so that you can ensure results. You have to know that the skills you will be practicing are effective and proven.

Even having specific actions and skill building exercises isn’t enough. You have to have a plan for implementation. Without that plan and the goals that go along with the plan, maybe you’ll remember the Secrets, maybe you won’t. Maybe you just won’t feel like applying it with that “particular” person and you procrastinate and say, “I’ll do it next time”. If “next time” doesn’t happen real soon, it’ll get pushed to a lower and lower level of urgency. You won't "rewire your brain" to establish the new habits, and life will continue as usual without any new results. You will not, however, forget these Four Secrets. You will always know that you know better. Which is worse than if you never heard the Secrets in the first place...

It might feel a little uncomfortable now that you realize that if better relationships are to be a reality for you, it will be up to you to make that happen. Nothing is so hard for me as a coach, as to see someone get to where you are right now and then not take inspired action towards achieving the kind of success in your communication that can open all kinds of doors for you.

So, with that said...

Here is my $100,000 question

Are you committed to you?  To your life, to better relationships and to being the person you deserve to be?

If you answered ‘Yes’, and only if you answered ‘Yes’, here is how I can help:

I’ve created a proven step-by-step system that I guarantee will give you everything you need to rewire your brain, and master communication so that you can handle any confrontation, redirect any argument and create meaningful relationships everywhere in your life.

It doesn’t matter what your current situation is or what struggles you’re experiencing right now. You can choose to change your life. If I myself, just an ordinary young guy with poor people skills, a lousy communication style and low self-confidence, could do it, so can you.

The Stay CALM Method™ has so far only been available for mid-size and large global companies. I have been all around the world teaching this program to people just like you in India, in the Philippines, in Europe, South America and all over North America including Hawaii.

Everyone in those companies walks away a winner because they learn what we call take-away skills. These are the skills that can get you to positions of leadership like being a manager or a director or running your own company as I do now . People can take what they learn from the Stay CALM Method™ and apply it in any other career or industry they choose.

Many of our graduates now own their own businesses and are realizing huge gains from their application of the Four Secrets of Communication Success that you’ve just learned about and by practicing
the Stay CALM Method™.

 

For the first time ever, the Stay CALM Method™ is now being made available to the public, instead of just for the people working in our client companies.

Improving the world just by coaching people in the business world would take forever.  The same system that we have used to give to people in Fortune 100 companies the ability to achieve breakthrough results, is now available to you here.


What's included in the Stay CALM Method™...

 

I've taken everything that I teach in the Stay CALM Method and produced a home-study system that will produce the same results as I've delivered to the Fortune 100 companies. 

 

Here's what iCAN Media will ship directly to your front door:

   
1. A signed copy of the book Stay CALM by me, Communication Success Coach, Jon Forrest
2. A 2-Disk Audio Version of the book read by me, sent out in the mail with your signed copy of the book.
3. A set of Mem-Cards – a deck of 27 flash cards each with one key point from the book and a great quote on the back of each card.
   

Dr. Joe Vitale has written a forward for the book Stay CALM,  Here's what he has to say about the Stay CALM Method™:

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Jon Forrest with Dr. Joe Vitale

Here I am with Joe,
presenting him with the first copy of
Stay CALM with his foreword.
"Worth the price of admission!"

“In Stay CALM, a wise book by communication success coach Jon Forrest, you’ll learn the four cornerstones of human interaction which are worth the price of admission. They can help you in any conversation, confrontation, or outright argument.”

 

- Dr. Joe Vitale,
Author of The Attractor Factor,
and a star in the movie The Secret
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We just now made the Stay CALM Method available to the public online!

After February 29th, 2008 the price for this Home Study Program
will increase substantially.

You can get the Stay CALM Home study kit for a special price of $127 Right Now!

...THERE'S MORE! ~ INSTANT GRATIFICATION BONUS ~

I want to make sure that you have the ability to learn the Stay CALM Method™ immediately.  When you claim your Home Study Kit right now you will recieve the following Electronic Downloads within minutes:

1. An ebook version that you can download and read using Adobe Acrobat Reader (PDF).
2. An MP3 version of the Audio book that you can download and import into your iPOD.

 

Limited Time Offer! 
When you purchase the Stay CALM Method™ now, you will receive a lifetime subscription to the Video Learning Module Library – continuously growing collection of short powerful learning videos that you can review as often as you like for life!  This is what will cause the price to go up soon, so get in on this introductory offer by claiming your complete Stay CALM Method™ kit right now.

 

You will also receive unlimited access to the Verbal Aikido User Forum to chat with and learn from other people using the Stay CALM Method™

Plus you will also get access to Jon’s Blog where you will get regular tips, recommendations, videos and personal information that you might find interesting

 

Take the first step.

Even if it's three in the morning you can purchase this system now.  

You can begin learning the Stay CALM Method™ right now... Not for the higher price that I plan to sell it for after February 29th 2008... You can order, download, and be reading and listening to this powerful program in minutes!!!

...for only $67!

 

 

My Personal Guarantee is very simple: 
Purchase the Stay CALM Method Home Study Program.  Apply the Method with the people who matter the most to you in your life.  If, after 30 days, you have not seen any improvement in even one important relationship, send everything back except the downloads.  I'll refund every penny.  I'll give you two weeks to send me back the book, the CD's, and the Mem-Cards, and we'll process your credit in two weeks.  Fair?  So from the day you purchase the Stay CALM Method, you'll have 45 days to be absolutely sure that the Method works to YOUR satisfaction.  And you'll still get to keep the Audio and e-Book downloads, on me. Do we have a deal?

After completeing the course I GUARANTEE that you will
learn all this:

  • Redirect people who are arguing with you
  • Calm people down when they become angry towards you
  • Deal with full blown verbal attacks
  • Create cooperation within a team, even if it isn’t your team
  • Help complainers to take action (and stop complaining)
  • Fully relax, like getting over 2 hours of sleep, in less than 15 minutes
  • Become more fun to be around
  • Learn how to listen to people no matter how they are talking (or yelling) to you
  • Form meaningful relationships with ease
  • Determine the intention behind specific verbal patterns and avoid battles
  • Really and truly see/feel/hear things from the other person’s point of view
  • Do that even when you are under extreme stress (like in an argument)
  • Reconnect with your husband, wife, partner, child, parent, sibling, in-law…
  • Improve your relationships – all of them
  • Provide good “Customer Service” (no matter who your customer is…)
  • Become “Management material”
  • Become an “Executive” or “Board-Member” candidate
  • Be a great influence on your kids
  • Create win-win outcomes with any personality type
  • Become aware of all the sub-language communication going on
  • Identify what people really need when they are upset with you
  • Create a “safe” environment for communication
  • Learn a powerful technique called “Tenkan” that will cement the most significant lesson of all
  • Make sure your own personality style won't get in the way of good communication
  • Use a part of your brain to help someone change their behavior, without saying a word
  • Develop a healthy level of self acceptance (Learn to like who you are now)
  • Immediately increase your self-worth and self-esteem
  • Immediately see others as having increased self-worth and self-esteem
  • Learn how your expectations affect what’s really happening, even if you say nothing
  • Be able to identify if an emotion is yours, or one you’re “catching” from someone else
  • Stay calm in any situation, no matter how intense
  • Forgive yourself and others
  • Redirect complainers to find the commitment that drives their complaints
  • Have increased capacity for accepting people (yourself included)
  • Deal with the 6 common verbal attack patterns

And much, much, more....

 

 

Here's what people using the Stay CALM Method™ are saying about it:

Coach John Davidson (JD) praises the Stay CALM Method™:

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“I had been struggling my entire marriage to find real contentment in the way I communicated with my wife. In one month, practicing the Stay CALM Method™, the 12 previous years of confusion and apprehension has been replaced with harmony, real listening (in both directions) and hugely reduced stress in my life (and my wife's as well). The funny thing? I'm an executive coach and I help people solve people and business problems for a living, but at home? Something just wasn't clicking in for me; I was missing a critical piece of the puzzle.

“Jon Forrest and the Stay CALM Method™ are the real deal. I completely endorse his products and method and offer the same program to my own clients – it's that good.”

 

- John Davidson (JD), Executive Coach

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Here's what a CEO said about the Stay CALM Method™ being applied at his company:

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That's Eric on the right in the Blue Shirt

“It's hard to know where to start in describing the change in our company after working with Jon Forrest and the team from iCAN. The biggest single difference it has made in my life is that I feel a greater sense of harmony both personally and professionally. Before, both employees and customers were getting upset and angry, and there was a lot of blame and finger-pointing going on. Through the process of working with iCAN, we learned to focus on what's right instead of who's wrong. Now we have a profit-sharing plan, managers support their people to achieve clear objectives, and we have a simple but effective one-page business plan that everyone supports. Surveys show customer satisfaction is way up along with profits and margin and people enjoy coming to work. I enjoy coming to work. I haven't felt like this since I started the business 11 years ago. Best of all, my wife and kids have really seen the difference”

 

- Eric Golly, CEO, Labeltronix
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Here's what the founder of a major consumer electronics brand said:

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"I've seen firsthand the results of people using the Stay CALM Method™. When Jon Forrest taught the method to our customer care agents, our customer satisfaction scores went to their highest levels ever."

 

- Victor Tsao, Entrepreneur, co-founder of Linksys, now Cisco Linksys
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Here's what a world famous Aikido Sensei (Teacher) said about it:

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"This book is a treasure! It blends the best of the philosophy of Aikido and the time-tested lessons of good communication in a very tidy package."

 

- Sensei James Nakayama, Western Regional Director, Aikido Association of America
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And this from a Law Professional:

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"I am amazed at how many useful tools for better communicating are packed into the small but powerful work. The Stay CALM Method™ has helped several of my juries to break deadlocks and settle important cases. I read this book over and over."

 

- A District Attorney in Alaska
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From another of our satisfied clients in the corporate world:

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"Our Plant continues to benefit from the work of Jon Forrest and his Stay CALM Method™. We have been experiencing higher ratings on our employee satisfaction scores and people are communicating with much better results"

 

- Tom Willis, Director of Training, Neutrogena, a division of J&J
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An Executive at a major global organization:

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"The priniciples in this book are timeless and I can easily apply the Stay CALM Method™ when the proverbial fan gets hit with the stuff... and the flash cards really drove home the main points. This is something that anyone can easily use to improve their relationships."

 

- Bob White, VP, Global Enterprise Initiatives of a Fortune 50 Company
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A global design firm:

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"This book and the Stay CALM Method™ made an instant positive impact on our leadership team and now our entire organization has embraced this work, it's that good, and very simple too."

 

- Ron Holecek, CEO, WATG Architecture and Design
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The Stay CALM Method™ will make a noticeable impact
on how you deal with people...

...Or It Costs You Nothing!

 

 

I don't know what the outcome of this will be,
because at this point it's up to you.

 

I hope you'll decide to help create more harmony in this world by at least one person...

YOU!


Here's to Greater Harmony in your Life,
Jon Forrest

 

P.S. - This system has just now become available on the internet and we are offering an introductory program for a limited time only.  We WILL be raising the price of the Stay CALM Method™ on the last day of February, 2008.  This is because of the increased number of Video Learning Modules that will be available in the VLM Library and because the value of the program will become clear as people will be hearing about it from you.  So tell your friends and family to get in on this incredible offer right away!

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P.P.S.  if you are not satisfied with absolutely every aspect of the Stay CALM Method™, and it does not live up to YOUR expecations and standards, I absolutely promise to refund every penny you've invested.  Just send back the products and you can keep the digital downloads, on me. I run a fully operational, global consulting and coaching firm and my reputation is far more important to me than keeping your $127 if you aren't a Raving Fan.

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